The desire to have girls jump all around you is one that every guy
would want to have, but such occurrences don't often happen as much as we
expect them to, which is the reason why you must learn to attract girls if you
want them to stick around you.
The funny thing
about attracting women is that the techniques are quite simple and would work
for any woman when applied correctly. Even with these techniques intact, some guys’
sill finds it challenging to get girls to notice them. Before I tell you the
reason why some guys fail at attracting girls, i will first love to first talk
about the important points on how to attract girls.
There are things
you must consider as a man if your intention is to get a girl to like you, this
things include:
1. Confidence:
This as far as I’m concerned is the first and most important ingredient to get
girls to notice you. Confidence is when you are sure about what you have, who
you are and what you can do. In order words, when you are confidence, fear will
be far away from you. Girls easily notice confident men when they set their
eyes on one, so you must learn to be self-assured at all times because it will
determine whether you will be able to take advantage of the opportunity you
have to talk to that girl.
2. Communication:
This is the next step after confidence. Confidence is very important but it is
not enough if attracting a girl is your priority for now. you must learn to
communicate your intent to a girl in the most acceptable and caring way
possible if you want them to be attracted. The best way to express yourself to
a girl is not through sign language or body language, you need the
communication skill. Some people over a long period of time now have put the
importance of communication aside when it comes to making a girl develop
interest in you and that is why a lot of them have failed too many times
without number. If you will get that girl hooked to you, then talking rightly
will be one of the prerequisites. Girls always tend to estimate your
personality through the first few minutes of communication. so tell me why you
would not want to take this point seriously knowing fully well that your secret
attraction is in it.
3. Don't Be In a
Hurry And Don't Run After Girls: Girls do not like guys that look desperate. Do
you know why? It’s because they feel guys who are desperate are insecure and as
such, they always tend to move away from such guys. Girls like it when they
feel like they are in a competition, so it will do you a lot of good if you cut
down on how much of girls you chase and let them chase you. Girls usually want
guys that other girls want, for that reason; it is easier for a girl to get
attracted to you.
Though all this ingredients might be in place, it still might not
work if you leave this part of your life lacking:
·
Hygiene:
you need to learn how to look clean. Wash yourself at least three times every
day to ensure that you are always clean and if you can’t. Brush your teeth
twice daily and floss after every meal and then use a good mouth wash to rinse
your mouth afterwards. Always ensure that your nails are kept short and neat. Trim
your hair if you like it short or style it properly if you like long hair. All this
should be done even more when you want to meet a girl because any slightly
difference from what they expect from a guy as per self-hygiene will put them
off and that will reduce your chances of ever getting that girl.
·
What
you wear: not many guys give attention to this part of their life and that is
why they have repeatedly failed in finding the answer to how to attract a woman
of their dreams. Learn to dress well. Women like it when a guy looks neat as it
is the first attracting point. What they see will determine whether they will
stand to at least to what you have to say. Like someone rightfully said “dress
the way you want to be addressed.” I couldn’t agree any better.
If you do this things right, attracting a girl shouldn’t be a
problem that you cannot solve. I wish you the best in your adventure!
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