tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71836783502632688402024-03-05T14:03:15.464-08:00Dating TrickzYour road map to a more fulfilling love life and relationshipChristopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-54879051841543978072022-10-27T04:50:00.000-07:002022-10-27T04:50:21.568-07:00 The 5 Relationship Stages Every Couple Must Pass<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPEcTZffR6VaTRk1O0fHHeVP61CjC3TP0dq0c0i5yZBDr61P32OJWRFeRtBFGnakJNiPuImN91Vsg3gAkYuIojYz1HqHbUJUxm4o4zYk7tDH5eusy9iq_c4tzQmvKdVimTsD7b416zpJnoDgXm9z0lCEjAMfPvpqNnWYVy5Y7oKnXemsr3aphs09T1/s884/Spiceup%20rel.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="588" data-original-width="884" height="258" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPEcTZffR6VaTRk1O0fHHeVP61CjC3TP0dq0c0i5yZBDr61P32OJWRFeRtBFGnakJNiPuImN91Vsg3gAkYuIojYz1HqHbUJUxm4o4zYk7tDH5eusy9iq_c4tzQmvKdVimTsD7b416zpJnoDgXm9z0lCEjAMfPvpqNnWYVy5Y7oKnXemsr3aphs09T1/w400-h258/Spiceup%20rel.PNG" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>The Merge, Skepticism and Denial, Disillusionment, Decision,
and Wholehearted Love are the five stages of a relationship. These five stages
are experienced in every relationship, though not just once. Consider these
stages as a succession of seasons that we pass through in an endless cycle
rather than as stepping stones to a certain result.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Relationship stages are not linear but rather cyclical.<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We frequently believe that any intimate relationship will
inevitably move through the stages of initial chemistry, euphoric infatuation,
a string of minor setbacks, and ultimately, a blissful state of
happily-ever-after. We frequently encounter this pleasant story in movies,
television, and music. Love is, in fact, a journey without a destination. We
shouldn't anticipate that later on in our relationship, we'll reflect on the
challenges we faced and exclaim, "I guess that's it! Here we are! We
succeeded!" Because there is another obstacle beyond where you are right
now.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In other words, rather than being linear, a relationship's
stages are cyclical. Even those who make it to the fifth and final stage of a
relationship—Wholehearted Love—will eventually find themselves returning to
Stage 1 to re-enter the relationship. However, they can always return home.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The five stages of a relationship are explained here, along
with the abilities couples need to go through each stage.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>First Stage: The Merge<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The Merge, often known as the honeymoon phase, is the first
phase of a partnership. When a couple first gets together, the first, sweeping
romanticism frequently swallows them, resulting in all-consuming joy in our partner's
presence and hungry, passionate sex. People who are in this stage of a
relationship frequently believe they have discovered their "perfect
match," someone who is eerily similar to them and incredibly compatible.
They frequently dissolve boundaries because they feel like they always want to
be together. The two appear to combine, or at least appear willing to.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The reasoning part of our brain is frequently overridden by
these emotions. Indeed, according to the study, this initial stage is
characterized by physiological changes in the brain, including a cocktail of
hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins that initiate and sustain
infatuation. This brain glow frequently makes us "addicted" to our
companions and causes us to overlook incompatibilities, warning signs, or other
problems.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>What to do at this point in the relationship<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Enjoy this phase to the fullest because this is what makes
dating so enjoyable and fascinating. Be conscious of your heightened emotions
at the same moment. Spend some time observing your feelings and your connection
from a distance while carefully considering whether this person is the greatest
match for you. While taking this biochemical love potion, get frank advice from
people who can make sure you are not overlooking any seriously alarming red
signals (this is rarely taken seriously).<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Take your time while making any significant decisions as the
Merge can cloud your judgment and tempt you to act in ways that are ultimately
unwise or unhealthy for you. Generally speaking, avoid making decisions when you're
"so in love," as this is only a fleeting emotion that will pass.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Second Stage: Skepticism and Denying<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Skepticism and Denial, the second phase of a relationship,
is when we begin to genuinely recognize the differences between our partners
and ourselves. With a thud, we emerge from the trance of infatuation only to
discover that the very qualities we previously deemed so admirable have grown
tiresome. Their adventurous temperament feels like unneeded danger, her
generosity looks careless, and his dependability now feels inflexible.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Unfortunately, when we encounter one another's differences,
friction is inevitable. Power battles intensify, and we are astounded by our
partner's transformation. Love and alienation coexist with annoyance. We might
not be "ideal" for one another after all.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Our biological reactions to stress increase as our level of
disappointment grows. Depending on who we are and the situation, we can desire
to fight or run away. For instance, you can feel the need to stand up for your
principles, which could translate into the desire to get your way in
everything. Even while it makes little sense to expect someone to be exactly
like us, many of us still have a tendency to inquire, why our partner is not
like us.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>What to do at this point in the relationship<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The ability to manage conflicts is crucial at this point.
Learn how to treat each other with care and respect while engaging in dispute
resolution and relationship issues head-on. Keep in mind that disagreements and
power struggles are commonplace in relationships and are not always a sign that
the relationship is failing or that the two people are no longer in love.
You'll need to develop the ability to distinguish between the constructive
dispute and unhealthful control concerns; the former may be resolved, but the
latter may be a warning that you should end the relationship.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The second stage of a relationship is also an excellent time
to figure out your love languages because this is the period where you're
beginning to acknowledge your differences. There are five different ways to
express love, and each individual must understand how their partner prefers to
be loved.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Third Stage: Disappointment<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The disillusionment stage of a relationship is the third
step. Winter is the season of love (we don’t have winter in Nigeria - lol), and
for some couples, it may feel like the end of the road. The power conflicts in
the relationship are now fully exposed, and the problems the couple had long
brushed under the rug are suddenly starkly apparent. Some people develop a
constant state of alertness and are prepared to charge into battle at the first
sign of trouble. Other couples may gradually drift apart, spending more time
and effort outside of their relationship and less time on it.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Our initial experience of intense love is frequently a
distant memory at this point. The "I" reemerges and compared to our
earlier happy feeling of "we," this new condition feels much more secure.
However, some couples might not doubt their dedication; rather, they might
interpret this as a clear indication that something needs to change.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>What to do at this point in the relationship<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Make room and clear the air. Stop avoiding difficulties and
sweeping them under the rug; as exhausting as the constant disagreements may
seem, sweeping them under the rug merely leaves a lumpy carpet with lots of
things to trip over.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">At this point in the relationship, there could be a lot of
negative energy present. Practice being affectionate even while angry to
counteract this. Can you go out to dinner and a movie together while feeling
irritated and conscious that something isn't working and has to be discussed?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The brain only takes in positive information during the
Merge and avoids anything that would contradict that perspective. The brain is
focusing on all the flaws in the relationship throughout the disillusionment
period. The things that are going wrong receive all of our attention, while the
things that are going right are neglected. Try to counteract that process with
a daily practice of thankfulness.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Fourth Stage: Making a decision<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Because you’ve reached your breaking point, the fourth stage
of a relationship is referred to as the Decision. Self-protective tactics,
emotional breakdowns, and long-distance separations after arguments are all
frequent occurrences. The same goes for remoteness and apathy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">When you start to seriously consider leaving and even start
to make plans to end the relationship, you know you’re there. You might be
eager to start a brand-new relationship with someone.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">At this point, we must decide whether to go, remain and do nothing
despite our misery, or remain and truly attempt to mend our relationship.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>What to do at this point in the relationship<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you are at this point in your relationship, I’ll suggest
that you take a different approach and decide to work on your relationship
before deciding on it. Years of anger or estrangement can disappear when
couples learn how to communicate properly, even though many times they believe
they want to end the relationship.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Understanding your contribution to the breakdown of your
relationship and making a serious change are both necessary components of doing
the work. By selecting this final option, we can allow our relationship to
develop and flourish while also learning the lessons that will enable us to be
the best versions of ourselves.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Even when a couple decides to divorce, they can frequently
do it amicably by wishing one another well and acknowledging their respective
roles in the incident. Well, of course, this won’t be the same when one or both
partners are toxic.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Fifth Stage: Unconditional Love<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Wholehearted Love is the fifth stage of a relationship,
which is when things are most wholesome and satisfying in our union. Summertime
in a relationship is when the rewards of their efforts are completely ripe and
ready to be enjoyed. There is no such thing as a "perfect match,"
thus couples go through actual individuation, self-discovery, and the
acceptance of imperfection in both themselves and their relationships.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In this fifth stage of a relationship, there is still hard
work to be done, but the difference is that couples can lean into difficult
conversations and listen attentively without becoming defensive or hostile.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Couples also start playing together again around this stage.
They can smile, unwind, and truly savour one other. As each individual
rediscovers themselves in ways that allow them to fall in love with each other
all over again, they can even partake in some of the thrilling passion,
delights, and sex of the Merge.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>What to do at this point in the relationship<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Feed your body. The characteristics of two wholehearted
people—generosity, humour, adaptability, resilience, healthy boundaries,
self-care, and a life with meaning and purpose—are what drive the Wholehearted
Love stage. Make self-care and self-growth ongoing objectives. Couples can
remain in this stage as long as they can retain their completeness as
individuals.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Be aware that new obstacles are lurking around the corner,
but you are better prepared to handle them when they do. Enjoy the ride in the
interim.<o:p></o:p></p>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-70509024909553877812022-02-22T08:42:00.000-08:002022-02-22T08:42:17.347-08:0010 Ways to Make a Guy Dislike and Lose Interest in You<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjAVZlPsap70Chtom0Q5SLloSb1tHqluB9mOH6rGwqpRhs08FdDSk8ok9WohJreagXbunktM-oLUa6JfYzIkeOISoTrKPmyg5BZV9DrKp_ioja7rui8TNu6xNEev0vpjtA-4PKv8fagVSSXtpOn1LWtNp4fHvNFVeefY3-0bxvoaO_KBNurqGcyp40B=s5953" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="5953" data-original-width="3965" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjAVZlPsap70Chtom0Q5SLloSb1tHqluB9mOH6rGwqpRhs08FdDSk8ok9WohJreagXbunktM-oLUa6JfYzIkeOISoTrKPmyg5BZV9DrKp_ioja7rui8TNu6xNEev0vpjtA-4PKv8fagVSSXtpOn1LWtNp4fHvNFVeefY3-0bxvoaO_KBNurqGcyp40B=s320" width="213" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">When a guy likes you, the feeling is usually fantastic, but now that you've got one, you're not so sure about him. So, here's how to make a guy forget about you.</span></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-06e56713-7fff-24c4-f248-04236a355674"><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">So it's a little unexpected that some ladies are interested in learning how to make someone lose interest in them. Really interesting to think. However, we've all experienced at least one encounter where someone is genuinely interested in us, but we don't feel the same way about them.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You may have been interested at first, but after getting to know this person, you realize you're not a good match. While you are aware of this simple feeling of incompatibility, expressing them on the other hand is more difficult than you’d expect.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">How to make a guy forget about you</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Just don't tie this guy up in knots. You should cut the ties if you don't want anything to happen between you two. I know this may sound harsh, but if you want to send him a clear message that you're not interested, simply go ahead and tell him exactly what you mean.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">But since that seems a bit difficult, here's what you should and shouldn't do if you're wondering how to make a guy lose interest in you. You don't have to traumatize him just because you don't like him.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Ready to know what to do to make a guy dislike you? Let's get this journey started.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">1. Know exactly what you want</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We've seen people say they're not interested in a guy, then try to make him jealous and play hard to get weeks later. You should know for sure what you want and decide by being honest with yourself.</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Yes, he likes you; however, do you like him? That is the question.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If you’ve always secretly liked him back, then let him know. If you are not, then decide and don’t play games with his heart.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">2. Inform him that you are not interested</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">When a guy likes you, he is not going to suddenly lose interest in you overnight and as such will be expecting you to express your feelings toward them.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Since you are not interested, simply tell him you're not, just be honest and straightforward about your feelings. Sure, it could bruise his ego a little, but it's preferable to him chasing you around with no idea where he stands.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">3. Meet face-to-face if you feel at ease.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Hey, I’m not advising you to meet up with your stalker and inform him that you aren't interested. Of course, your level of comfort with him will dictate how you speak with him.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Meet with him and tell him how you feel, especially if he is a friend and someone you respect. I understand it's difficult, but it's possible to leave an opportunity for miscommunication or even lead him on without realizing it while communicating via text or phone.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">4. Don't make unnecessary and lame excuses</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We understand that no one wants to talk about this. What's worse is if you're having this talk with a guy who likes you and you're not being really honest.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We understand that you don't want to be harsh, and you shouldn't be, but you also shouldn't make up excuses. These justifications will only make him feel worse and will not provide him with the closure he requires to move on with his life.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">5. Be straightforward</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You don't have to list all of his flaws or tell him everything you like and dislike about him. You should also avoid giving him a five-minute spiel on how you've been feeling, etc. Let's get right to the subject.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Don't prolong his misery because you both know what's coming and the quicker you do it, the better for both of you.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">6. Allow him to express himself</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">He might respond with something of his own. Don't turn him off.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Allow him to express himself by telling you how he feels. He'll be able to get everything he wants to say off his chest this way, and the process of moving on will be much simpler for him. Those who do not receive closure find it difficult to move on.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">7. Be friendly when you see him</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">He's not infected with anything; he's just a guy you're not interested in. Act warmly with him unless his behaviour scares you.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">But don't be overly kind. When we know we have injured someone, we overcompensate. And this can cause the lines to be blurred all over again. Be kind, but keep your distance.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">8. Failure to express gratitude</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Most guys would like to be acknowledged if he opens doors for you, buys your flowers, or does anything else pleasant for you. If you don't even notice his efforts to make you happy, he won't be happy either, and you know what that means.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">9. Taking a long time to respond to text messages</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It irritates everyone when someone takes an eternity to respond to a text. When they do that, what message are they sending?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It implies that you are unimportant to them and that you have more important things to accomplish than converse with them.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">10. Drama</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Guys despise drama. If you're continuously picking fights or getting worked up about little things, he'll grow to dislike you.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">In conclusion</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">As you already know, there are numerous methods to making a man lose interest in you. We're not advising that you deviate from your usual routine to get rid of him, but if anything on this list reminds you of yourself, you might be able to let him go sooner rather than later.</span></p></span>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-12072882609577600512022-02-14T07:52:00.002-08:002022-02-14T07:52:40.831-08:00 New Relationship Boundaries: 11 Lines Every Couple Should Draw From the Get-Go<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiBf0Ei05E1WFmRP2pm_CzDW9coXdprCHCkL75ZA2-DWNTnL71w8Dvkb6_htNV45VjVI5hzrjItoBk8nXYfsp0WDw-B08El2QBMIi4n9OM37cYDZXm1qqKzpedyrGyVfX3gOlNLdoNhoSTC2ol4UrmjufR8lFHhq70b6jwlNRuj3FMGfqt0MZTEBWdl=s5693" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3795" data-original-width="5693" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiBf0Ei05E1WFmRP2pm_CzDW9coXdprCHCkL75ZA2-DWNTnL71w8Dvkb6_htNV45VjVI5hzrjItoBk8nXYfsp0WDw-B08El2QBMIi4n9OM37cYDZXm1qqKzpedyrGyVfX3gOlNLdoNhoSTC2ol4UrmjufR8lFHhq70b6jwlNRuj3FMGfqt0MZTEBWdl=s320" width="320" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">It can be incredibly exhilarating when you first start dating and commit to someone. However, there are some new relationship boundaries to work out.</span><p></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-fd0f5336-7fff-86eb-01f0-2a55507dddd9"><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">The start of a new relationship is usually wonderful and thrilling. Naturally, you're not considering erecting barriers and establishing new relationship boundaries.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You don't want any barriers between you and your new lover because you want to melt into each other's arms all the time!</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">At the early stages, anything your companion does seems sweet when you're preoccupied with butterfly </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;">feelings</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;"> and infatuation. However, you'll have to set some limits sooner or later.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">As a result, it's preferable to set things up at the start so that you can both ease into them. Why should your partner be surprised by how much space you require or your non-negotiables halfway into your relationship? It's preferable to get it out of the way right away, don’t you think?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">The most crucial guidelines for establishing new relationship boundaries</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Boundaries are an excellent tool to determine whether or not you and your partner are on the same page. Perhaps you're not as compatible as you believe.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">But, in your new relationship, what type of limits do you need to establish? You probably haven't considered it yet, but now is the moment.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If you're unsure about what limits you should establish in your new relationship, you're in for a good ride since you're reading this article.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We'll go through all of the new relationship boundaries you should establish as soon as possible in your new relationship. It's time to learn the laws that govern a long-term happy and healthy relationship.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">1. Communication.</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If you want your relationship to work, you and your partner must be on the same page when it comes to communication. Even if you aren't a big texter, that doesn't guarantee your companion is. They may despise talking on the phone, but you adore it. How are you going to communicate?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">In a fresh relationship, this can cause some issues. The individual who likes texting may be irritated by the other's constant desire to converse on the phone. And the person who prefers to converse on the phone may be frustrated that their partner prefers to text.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It's critical to inform them of your preferred method of communication. Make your preferences known in a straightforward manner. They won't be insulted if you send them short texts or want to talk on the phone for hours. One of the most significant new relationship boundaries is this one..</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Communication is crucial, so make sure you and your spouse are on the same page. As you can see, it’s number one on the list.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">2. Personal time</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Everybody enjoys having their own personal space. Just because you've found someone new doesn't mean you have to spend every waking second with them. How much personal time do you require?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It doesn't have to be a serious discussion, but it should be brought up in casual conversation. Some people require more alone time, while others do not.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It's a good idea to start this conversation by letting your partner know if you're an introvert or an extrovert. Introverts require a significant amount of alone time to refuel and renew. Extroverts, on the other hand, require time with other people to recharge.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It's true that if you have that underlying personality difference, finding a happy medium might be challenging. If you're unsure about your personality type, a website like 16Personalities.com can help. Take the free online exam to understand more about each other's personalities as well as the need for alone time.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">3. Relationship type</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">This appears to be a problem for a lot of couples. One is looking for a casual connection, while the other is seeking a more serious relationship. It would have been better if you had brought it up on your first date, or perhaps earlier.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You don't want to go into a new relationship only to find out they're merely searching for a casual hookup when you're trying to marry!</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Most couples, you'd imagine, would talk about this when they're first negotiating their new relationship limits. But in an actual sense, they don't.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">In truth, most people simply believe that the other person shares their viewpoint.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You and your spouse, on the other hand, are not mind-readers. When you're in a new relationship, you can't make any assumptions. You must ask your lover directly what they desire. And you'll have to tell them exactly what your desires are in a relationship..</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Your amount of commitment is now entirely up to you, but you must convey your level of dedication to the relationship. If you don't, your relationship is likely to be filled with turmoil and heartbreak.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">4. Use of social media</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">People are often afraid to upload images of themselves on social media when they are in a new relationship. They presumably do this out of caution, not wanting to appear overly eager too soon. Plus, how can you be sure what your partner thinks about it?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Some people are highly private and don't want their personal lives to be exposed to the public. Others, on the other hand, literally narrate their entire lives for everyone's viewing enjoyment 24 hours a day, seven days a week with reels, stories, and more TikTok. As a result, you'll need to discuss your social media preferences as a new relationship boundary.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If you don't openly discuss it, you'll be stuck between a rock and a hard place. If you don't publish images, your partner may become irritated. However, if you do, it may irritate them.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">The "relationship status" is another component of social media that is one of the most crucial new relationship boundaries.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Do you identify your partner when you say you're in a relationship? Do you want to keep it "single"? " Before either of you makes a move to disclose your relationship to the public, you need to have a serious dialogue about it.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We're all aware of how powerful social media has grown in our daily lives. As a result, it's critical to discuss social media and how people feel about it.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">5. It's a Date</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Though your first few dates may be crazy or unusual, your dates will become more predictable and ordinary after you're in a long-term relationship. You and your new partner must agree on how you want to spend your time together.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Talk about your typical activities. Do you enjoy going to the movies, happy hour, dancing, or live music? Tell your partner if this is the case. Also, get to know what they enjoy doing.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">While you may enjoy sitting on the couch watching cable Tv all weekend, your partner may prefer to go for walks.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">As previously stated, no matter what you do together, the first date will always be exciting. However, as time passes, you may discover that you are not on the same page about the activities you enjoy. You need to strike a balance.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">6. Share</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">I understand you've only recently begun dating, but when it comes to revealing personal information, things can get a bit complicated. These boundaries must be established early in the partnership.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Do you want your partner to have access to all of your passwords? Maybe you think splitting the bill is a good idea, but your partner doesn't.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Sharing isn't only about money or passwords. Sharing also entails self-disclosure, which entails telling your new partner about your past, your hopes, dreams, principles, and overall worldview.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Some people believe that giving personal information is dangerous, while others believe that it will help them emotionally bond with the other person. And to some extent, both of them are correct.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">These are usually questions that surface sooner or later when it comes to personal privacy, finances, revealing personal information and new relationship limits. So, when it comes to sharing these things, try to figure out what you're both comfortable with.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">7. Intimacy.</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We all understand the importance of intimacy in a relationship, and it will come up in conversations at some point. This is something you need to take care of right away.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Perhaps you don't like PDA or prefer to wait a few months before having sex. These are details that your partner should be aware of. It's up to you whether you want to be intimate right away or wait, but you and your partner must be on the same page.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Let's face it, everyone's sex drive is different. You may be itching for sex on your first date, but they prefer to wait till marriage! Even if your approaches to physical closeness are more similar, you must still discuss the frequency.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">One of you may desire sex every day or multiple times, whereas the other is ok with once a week. That's a significant distinction. While it may seem strange to discuss this early in your relationship, it will undoubtedly save you a lot of trouble in the future.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">8. What the future holds</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You have no clue where your future will take you or how it will appear, but you have a vision of how you want it to be. Perhaps you want children, perhaps you don't, perhaps you want to travel for the rest of your life.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Though this is a new relationship, who knows if it will turn into anything long-term. However, if you want children and they don't, this will become a problem in the future.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Again, it may feel strange to bring up these topics so early in the relationship. If you don't, you can find yourself on opposing ends of the spectrum five years down the road when it comes to your future.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">9. Must-haves and deal-breakers</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Yes, this is crucial. You'll need to spell out exactly what you will and won't do for them. This may appear harsh, but let's face it, you both have limits that can’t be crossed. It doesn't have to be a lengthy list of dos and don'ts, but they must be stated regardless of size.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You should also discuss your must-haves in addition to deal breakers. These are the aspects of a relationship that you simply cannot do without. Regular sex or continuous texting could be the culprit. It makes no difference what it is. It matters as long as it is essential to you.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">If you're hesitant to bring it up, begin by discussing what you don't expect your partner to do for you. Before you realize it, the discussion will have shifted to deal-breakers and must-haves, all without causing any tension!</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">10. Dissensions</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Who would have guessed that this would have to be a point of contention, but it is. Your relationship can be made or broken by how you handle arguments. Perhaps you require some space after an argument or you require immediate resolution of a situation. When you argue, how do you feel as a person?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">People deal with problems in five ways:</span></p></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A. avoidance</span></p></span></blockquote><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">B. Competing, </span></p></span></blockquote><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">C. Compromise,</span></p></span></blockquote><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">D. Giving in to the other person, and</span></p></span></blockquote><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">E. Cooperating to find a mutually beneficial solution.</span></p></span></blockquote><span><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">We all have our own personal styles, which we developed through watching our parents as children.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">As you can undoubtedly understand, if you want to avoid conflict and your partner is a "yeller" who wants to compete to win during an argument, this might lead to some serious issues.</span></p><br /></span><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0 0 0 40px; padding: 0px;"><span><p style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">11. Sexual kink</span></p></span></blockquote><span><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Sexually, everyone is unique. When it comes to sexuality, some people are fairly vanilla, while others are into some big kinky stuff. Some people may prefer</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Others like leisurely, sensual, and predictable sex, such as submissive sex or sex in the afternoon. It's not that one is better than the other; it's just a matter of personal preference.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">You and your partner must determine whether your kinky or vanilla sexual preferences are compatible, as well as how open your partner is to compromise and experiment.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">This is critical because if one of you is into S&M and the other prefers missionary style, you will most likely not get along.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">It's exhilarating and fresh to be in a new relationship. 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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">I was
thinking about the word "Happiness" and this thought dropped in my
mind and I feel like it won’t be fair keeping it to myself. Over the years I
have attended several meetings that have shaped my mind and giving me the kind
of mindset that I have today. So what has the word happiness got to do with my
topic?</span>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">Everyone
is one relationship or the other and we all experience some challenges in the
process. Challenges come and go but how you make one feel afterwards is what
will determine how well the relationship will continue. Challenges and fights
either make a relationship or mar it. Either way is really dependent on our
reactions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">If
someone you really care about offends you in such a way you wish they didn’t,
what would you do? Not so many people know how to handle situations when they
are offended irrespective of the fact that they have knowledge and experiences in
human relationship. Some things are not as difficult as we think; sometimes all
we just need to do is think about the other person involved in the mess with
you. There are simple ways to handle matters without causing more trouble. The
simple word that takes care of this is "care." If you care enough
about the one whose offense has caused some sort of grievance in your heart,
all you need to do is express your grievances in such a way it communicates
your displeasure to the person that offended you and help the person apologize.
In most cases, people don't do this; they express themselves in such a way it
gets the offender angrier than they were when they were offended by the offender’s
offense.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">An
English saying goes “sorry is the hardest word.” This is not because it is hard
to pronounce or spell, but because you have to admit that you have done
something wrong. If you already know that saying the word “sorry” is hard why
not help the person that’s suppose to say it to you even when you are not
happy?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">So my
questions are, what are you trying to achieve? Are you trying to get an
apology? Are you trying to stop the person from repeating the same offense?
What exactly do you want? Maybe when you learn to answer these questions before
you react to an offense, you will have a better style of expression that gets
you the required result. If you ask me, I think it is always better to have the
offender's feeling in mind (most especially if it's someone you really care
about). Your expression should get the offender remorseful and not angry.
That's the only way you will get an apology. Every relationship works better
when those involved in it genuinely care about each other. Express yourself the
way you want to but also think about the person you are expressing yourself to
because.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">Like a
friend of mine would say “words are like stones, weigh them before you throw
them.” This simply means the size of stone you throw shows the kind of damage
you are trying to make.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-GB;">It
applies to both sexes. #ThinkAboutIt</span></div>
Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-2546044734854922492013-06-03T08:36:00.000-07:002013-06-03T08:37:10.888-07:00I Hate My Boyfriend for What He Did To Me<div class="MsoNormal">
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It’s been over two years since the last
time I heard a girl say to me that I hate my boyfriend. Well, this is not
because it doesn't happen anymore or that guys have suddenly become so perfect
that they don't offend their girls anymore, but because I have suddenly become
so busy that I successfully locked myself away from the rest of the world.
Well, I guess that is one of the sacrifices I have to make to be successful and
I hope it hasn't gotten my girl to hate me in the process, I really hope so. I
guess I’ll have to be a man and find out for myself. With the way it is I’m
sure that is what you would love your boyfriend to do as well, right?</div>
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There is one thing I would like you to know before you hold
on to your confession of hatred for your boyfriend. And that is the fact that
boyfriends are not perfect and would always do things that will offend you in
many ways that they might not even be aware of. If you have been offended by
your boyfriend for too many reasons than you can even count and it has finally gotten
to the extent where you can say without any iota of doubt that I hate my
boyfriend, then something is really wrong somewhere which I am about to let you
in on.</div>
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I know that it has finally gotten to this point and you are
probably not willing to do anything about it because the hatred has eating deep
into you that it finally had to come out as words. But tell you what, I know
guys can be crazy and would do a thousand and one things without really
considering what their girl feel about it. Apart from the naturally unavoidable
things like lack of sexual satisfaction, snoring and some other things like
that, you might not really be too bothered about that but it somehow might get
you pissed and make you wish he was a better man that could deliver better on
those areas, but as it is that is not really the problem, right?</div>
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Your man has obviously done more damage to you by doing more
annoying, frustrating, disgusting, embarrassing and even life threatening things
that has caused you to finally agree and say that I hate my boyfriend for real.
And for this reason, the beauty you once saw in your relationship is no longer
their and the world seem to topple over itself when you see him a distance
away. You suddenly hate him so much you could puke at a sight of him.</div>
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<b>A Recent Personal
Experience<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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I was sitting right in front of my laptop thinking about the
next motivational comment I was going to update my Facebook profile with when I
got a buzz on my yahoo messenger. Guess who it was: my kid sister. She told me
that she was on her way to see her boyfriend when she saw him kissing another
girl. While I was typing a response, she was just too impatient and angry to
wait while I typed, so she called my mobile phone, then we got talking. She was
so pissed and disappointed that she told me “I hate my boyfriend for what he
has done to me.” I felt so sad for her and could barely comfort her before she
hung up the phone because she was weeping almost all through our conversation.</div>
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The painful part of the situation was that she was so in
love with him and I could see it in her eyes the first day she introduced him
to me and now he is doing this to her? I was vexed for her sake and felt like
doing something drastic about it but I had to stand back and act like I brother
that I am by advising her to be calm down and hope that her relationship works
out for her.</div>
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If something similar has happened to you, then you can be
sure that I totally understand how it feels. Feeling bad and displaying all the
anger is something I can relate with because I have a sister who has
experienced it and I can tell you that I felt as bad as she probably felt. But
before you keep saying I hate my boyfriend for what he has done to me, you
might want to consider the fact that expressing the hurtful feelings will not
make you feel any better; it will only give you more reasons to be hurting.</div>
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Therefore, try not to act out your anger, rather concentrate
on healing because without that, there is no way you would forgive him if at
all you intend to, of which I advice you do, because that is where the healing
begins. Once you are able to forgive him of his faults, accepting him back or
moving on won’t be as difficult as it normally would.</div>
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I want you to always remember one thing before you get angry
at what he does to you because I am not going to promise you that he won’t hurt
you again as there are many other things apart from cheating on you that will
hurt you probably even more, but remember this one thing by ask yourself this
one questions; do I detest him as a person or what he did to me? Usually you
would need to calm down, take a sit and make a list of all the great moments
and bad moments you both had. Most times, the good memories always outweigh the
bad ones. But in a moment of anger, you
will always tend to forget all the good things you both shared. So calm down,
and stop saying I hate my boyfriend. </div>
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Such exercise will help you separate him from his mistakes,
heal faster and before you know it you will be over his mistakes and you won’t
have to say to any other person that I hate my boyfriend.</div>
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I trust that this was helpful in a way. You can make it more
helpful by dropping a tip or two that will help a hurting lady out there
recover from her pain. Thank you.</div>
Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-51204945843298960912012-07-16T06:10:00.003-07:002012-07-16T06:10:29.310-07:0012 Most Important Dating Rules Any Guy Must Know
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You are a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> guy </span>who's<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> always in </span>a serious<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>relationship<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>You're a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> guy who </span>hasn't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>dated<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>in years<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Or
maybe<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>you're a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> guy </span>who has never<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>been successful<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>with girls<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Whatever </span>your situation<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">,
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the<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>courting<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> jungle. These </span>conventions<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> even the </span>stage<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>preparing<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> you </span>for success<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> while </span>secured<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>your feelings<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Women are </span>skilled<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
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for<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the </span>battle<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.</span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">1. Look </b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">your best<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>Acquire some<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>decent<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>clothes
and shoes<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Women </span>always look<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> at your shoes, </span>even if you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> last </span>examined<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> your Nikes in 1996. Get </span>outfits that fit<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> you, suit </span>you and also<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
are </span>contemporary<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Don't just </span>buy
one<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>attire<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>organize<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>your whole<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>closet<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Buy a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> nice </span>customized<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> suit, </span>there
isn't any<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>reason<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> not to. </span>If you can't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>take care of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> yourself, </span>in which way are you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>going to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>take
care of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> her?<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">2. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Organize<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> your </span>hygiene<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and </span>hair styling<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>Go down to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the barbers
shop and </span>tidy up<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> your hair,
getting it styled </span>if it is possible<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. If you don't have </span>much<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
hair, still get down to the salon, </span>maybe<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> get your head shaved. </span>Or just<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> get a </span>regular<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> shave, </span>an
expert<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> shave will leave your face </span>feeling
and looking<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> great. </span>Then it is<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>off and away to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the shops with you </span>for great<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>high quality<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>perfume<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and a grooming
kit. </span>Men're<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>so often<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>belittled<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> for smelling </span>awful<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Get
into<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>an everyday<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>showering<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> routine </span>so you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>will
always<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> smell </span>clean and fresh<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Women </span>love it<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">3. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Organize<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>your job<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>should you have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> one:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> Women </span>desire a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> man </span>who
may have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> some </span>ambition<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>in their life<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Coasting along </span>as a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
skateboard </span>trainer<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>is
generally<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> not </span>going to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> win you a </span>real<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> catch (though I'd </span>give it a try<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>I adore<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> skateboarding). Any job </span>is way better<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> than </span>none at all<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, but
knuckle down and </span>sort out<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> some
direction in your life. </span>Whenever you can<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> try and </span><span style="background: white;">appear like</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>you have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> something of a career. </span>For those who have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> a manual job, </span>at least<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>have some<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>intentions to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>work
for yourself<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>of course, if<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> you </span>currently<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> do, </span>then you are<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>on
course<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. But </span>understand what<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> you are about work wise </span>and have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>an idea<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>of the<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> future </span>strategies<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> because women </span>ask<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>concerning<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> your prospects. </span>Even if<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
they </span>fake<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>it isn't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>important<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, it is.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">4. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Maintain<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the know:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>You should always be<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>up to date with<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>latest<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> affairs, watch </span>the news<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
</span>and read<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>top quality<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> papers. Women usually do not </span>appreciate<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="background: white;">stupidity</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, and </span>laziness<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> is no </span>excuse<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> for
sounding </span>dumb<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Current affairs </span>are
essential<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> in showing you know </span>everything
about the<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> world we </span>reside in<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Should you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> travel </span>a great deal<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
then this </span>may help<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="background: white;">tremendously</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Unless you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, make
plans to travel and </span>tell her<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>about
it<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Proving </span>you are<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>ready<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>to organize<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>vacations<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>is essential<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> in the grand </span>scheme of things<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">5. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Don't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>extol<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the </span>virtues<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> of drinking in the bar 5 nights </span>per week<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>This can<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>never<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> win any fair princess's heart. </span>If you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> spend </span>your entire<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> time
boozing </span><span style="background: white;">with all the</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> boys, </span><span style="background: white;">it
is time to</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="background: white;">take a step back</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and pick up </span>some other<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
</span>productive<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>lifestyle<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Taking </span>your partner<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> for a drink </span>is fine<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>especially if you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> take her to get </span>beverages<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> at a nice </span>bar<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, but </span>give them<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="background: white;">the sense</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
that you live </span>there will<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> get
you </span>absolutely<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>nowhere
fast<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">6. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Keep your<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> super fan </span>reputation<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>under control<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>If you
love<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> your </span>sports<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and </span>savor<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> watching </span>the game<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>along
with your<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>pals<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, fine. If sport is a religion </span>and
you have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>your preferred<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> player's number tattooed </span>at your
back side<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>maybe you have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>a problem<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>If you are<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>interested
in<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> dating, rattling off baseball
stats, </span>shouting<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>concerning<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>unfair<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> umpires and </span>constantly<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
check the score will </span>put them<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
off in record time. To the </span>inexperienced<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, sports are </span>totally<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
boring, </span>and many<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> women </span>translate<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the </span>passion<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> as a </span>full<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>lack
of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> thought, </span>originality<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> or </span>motivation<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Millions of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> girls
love </span>sports activities<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> too, and
rooting </span>for similar<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> team </span>is
great<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>but don't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>make your<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>passion<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>towards
a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> one-sided one.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">9. Never </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">expect to have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> sex </span>on a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> first date:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> If </span>all you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>are after<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> is sex, </span>you
have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>arrived at<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> the wrong </span>place for<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>studying<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> material. </span>Should you be looking<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>for the<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> girl </span>of
your dreams<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>there is nothing<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> sexier than a </span>calm<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> man. </span>You're<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> easily </span>capable of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>waiting
for<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>the ideal<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> woman.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">10. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Read up on<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>manners<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>politeness<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and </span>courage<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>A woman<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> likes </span>receiving treatment<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
with </span>respect<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Lose the </span>coarse<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> language, the </span>curse<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> words, the </span>disrespect<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>and the<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>laziness<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Learn
how to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> eat in a </span>top rated<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>restaurant<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Learn about<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> fashion, </span>jewelry<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and flowers. </span>Know how to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> hold a door open </span>for a lady<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">, </span>allow her to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> go first and help her with her </span>seat<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>Listen to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> what she
says but have </span>ideas<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>of
your very own<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> too. </span>Show her<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>regard<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and </span>etiquette<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>at
each<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> step </span>and you will<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> be </span>on the right path<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">11. Start </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">listening<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>and stop<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> talking:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> Keep your date </span>interested<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>but don't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>turn into a<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> one-man </span>circus<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>She'll<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> be bored of you </span>quickly<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
because </span>she wants<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>to
talk about<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> herself too. </span>Listen
to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> things she </span>tells you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> about her </span>and don't forget<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> them. Women </span>like to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> chat </span>so you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>need to learn<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> to
listen to her. </span>Remembering<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">
things she </span>told you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> will </span>attract<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> her </span>even more<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">.<br />
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<strong>12.</strong> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Quit smoking</b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Now!<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">13. </b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Learn how to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> dance </span>even
if you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> have two left feet:</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> Women </span>like to<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> dance and it puts </span>the two of you<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> in </span>close up<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> contact. </span>It
is also<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>affectionate<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> and </span>sexy<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>You can be<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>the
world's<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> worst dancer, </span>I don't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> care. </span>However, if<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>you stay<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> seated when </span>she is<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> on
that dance floor </span>you might<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>likewise<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> not </span>exist<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. Try </span>enrolling in<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> salsa
and ballroom </span>classes<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">. </span>You
needn't<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> be Travolta but you </span>really
should have<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>a concept of<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> </span>the fundamentals<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> of rhythm. </span>Get started<span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"> today.</span>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-56169979705258410572012-07-03T12:03:00.000-07:002012-07-03T12:03:00.732-07:00Dating Tips: Lies You Have Been Telling Yourself About Dating<br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">There is absolutely no one on the surface of the earth that
appreciates or welcomes lies when they here one, this is why a lot of single
people out there see honesty as a great dating </span><span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">trait for anyone to have, which they see as a
potential partner. But the case is always quite different when it comes to
being honest with ourselves; it always proves difficult to keep up with the
same standard with which we wish other people should have. Sometimes we sway
from the truth a bit and sometimes we go to the extreme by deceiving ourselves
with deliberate lies.</span></div>
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With all this lies always clouding the mind, it more than
often prevents us from meeting that right person and starting a <a href="http://howtoloveanother.blogspot.com/2012/06/dating-tips-secret-of-dating-women.html">good relationship</a>.
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<b>1.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>Love would work for everyone except me: </b>you
may not really use these words just the way I have used them here on yourself,
they may not really be like this for some people as they are the reason why
some people are constantly afraid of getting into a relationship. I know how
this feels because I have been there before. You just feel like your destiny is
to stay out of love while every other person enjoys its beauty. Don’t be surprised
because you are not the only one that has had this feeling as there are
thousands of other people out there who have similar thoughts too. The solution
to this feeling is to turn the table around this time to your favor by telling
yourself that this is a lie and you are not afraid and that you too can get
someone to fall in love with you. That’s one of the ways you can get rid of
this feeling before it gets rid of love from your life and stops you from ever
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<b>2.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>I don’t deserve more: </b>this is one of
the great lies about dating that can prevent you from ever taking a step
further in getting into a new relationship or even keep in trapped in a crazy
one. if you are the type of person that agrees with this lie, you will find yourself
facing difficult and uncomfortable experiences such as abuse or disregard of
all sorts. It will be crazy and unreasonable to expect someone to show you love
when in yourself, you don’t believe that you can actually get love. If you have
grown to believe this blatant lie the best thing you can do for yourself right now
to turn the tables around is to schedule a meeting with counselor and tell
him/her about your life and probably the situations that led forced you to
agree with such a lie.</div>
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<b>3.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>“I know this relationship isn’t good for
me, but staying alone if worse.</b>”: there are countless amount of people who
has embraced this lie for a very long time and won’t let go because they feel it’s
right. But the truth is that it is a blatant lie and should be gotten rid of from
the mind as quick as possible. Sometimes, you might not know that what you have
is not the best until you actually see a better one, but the risks attached to
such feeling are usually very massive. This in other words means that you can
stay in a relationship for so long that you do not think any other person can
actually better than whom you’ve been with. Don’t misunderstand me here please,
am not saying you should break up with your present date and try someone else
just because you have been dating for a long time, am only tackling the lies
that many people tell themselves. Sometimes they feel if they live that person
whom they’ve been dating for a long time, they might not see someone that goods
again. And the funny thing to this people is that the present relationship is
not smooth but they’ll rather hang on even when it hurts real badly. Just in case
you don’t know, a mediocre dating experience will only result in a mediocre
<a href="http://howtoloveanother.blogspot.com/2012/05/how-to-keep-relationship-without.html">marriage life</a>, the same things goes with always finding difficult to maintain a
relationship because you are still not sure which person is your perfect match.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-71282834589194755592012-06-22T06:30:00.003-07:002012-06-22T06:30:37.458-07:00Dating Tips – The Secret of Dating Women Successfully<br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Dating women is not like the usual activities you are used
to performing, most especially if this is your first time of doing so. Dating
women is not as easy as switching your light socket on and off. It more like
learning to play a musical instrument you have never tried playing before. It
takes a lot of practice to master such instrument. When you start for the first
time, all your actions won’t seem to make sense to you. Sometimes you may even
feel as though you are just wasting your time and all your efforts are just for
nothing. As you read on, you will notice that this is probably one of the best
if it is not the best of all the dating tips you’ve ever read on the web.</span></div>
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But if you don’t stop and you keep practicing, you will
eventually start making nice rhythms that will be nice to the ear and even form
songs with it. Before you know it, you are a master of that instrument. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The same technique applies to women, if you are patient and
you take one step at a time and you do not try to hurry to being a master, your
efforts will definitely pay off in time.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Understanding Women<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Women are very unique, in fact every single one of them are
uniquely created by God. But what most guys don’t know is that women have more
things in common than they have differences. But first, we will start with what
they have in common.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Please take note: I might not discuss all the points in this
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Women are pretty complicated beings, I guess that’s one of
the reasons you are reading this article. Women are more like a Chinese puzzle
of brain twister. They think and act in a very funny and senseless way
sometimes (this is not to insult women, but it’s the truth).<o:p></o:p></div>
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I have never been any surer about the fact that a larger
number of women think differently than most men and to top it up again, most
women actually want different things than most men. I know this might be a hard
one for some men to swallow, but this is the truth. The faster you place a
handle on it the better for you and the faster you will be able to date even
more successfully than you used to.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>What are the things
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Has there ever being a time when you stopped and thought about
the things that gets women excited in relation to that which gets men excited? Women
are fond of reading romance novels, staying awake to watch soap operas, spending
their money on cosmopolitan magazines and many more other things, but men on
the other hand would rather buy playboy magazines, read newspaper, watch
football games and read newspapers.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Just from this obviously different interest, you can tell
that women are wired differently from men because men may never understand why
a woman would read a romance novel and cry in the process of seat for hours and
watch a soap opera.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I hope you were able to get the number one clue to dating
women successfully. Their interest is the first thing you have to look out for
if dating is really what you want. When you know what they are interested in,
you will be able to command their attention with those things if you know how
to play your cars right.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Have you noticed that women are often keen when it comes to
little details that men find almost irrelevant? Have you noticed that a woman
will make an issue out of what never seems to make sense to a man? Most of
these things are not new, they have not changes for thousands of years and are
not about to change anytime soon. So the better you understand what this is,
the easier it will be for you to reach out to a woman and appeal to her senses.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Permit me to say these… women are kind of confused beings,
though not to the extreme. This is because most times they usually don’t know
what they want from man. If you ask a lady, what would you want your man to be
like? She would tell you “a man that is tough,” but in the same answer she
would have a “but” and what that but means is that she would also want to have
the feeling of freedom at the same… How possible do you think that would be?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Can you see how complicated they are? That’s why it is
sometimes hard to understand women. But like a musical instrument, once you
understand the basics you would hardly have any difficulties in the process.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This is just one out of the many dating tips I will be
sharing with you on a weekly basis. Just keep coming to this blog and you will
find new articles that will help you get your relationship and dating life on a
better and stronger stand. Have fun!<o:p></o:p></div>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-42087799065815790532012-05-30T16:59:00.001-07:002012-05-30T17:01:21.034-07:00How to Keep a Relationship without Working Too Hard<br />
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Everyone wants to have a good and healthy relationship but
not every gets to enjoy such because of certain things that may arise as a
result of staying with the one you love. We all get to hear some sweet words we
often speak to each other like “I love you so much I don’t want to spend another
moment without you,” I wish we can run
away to a place where there will be none other but two of us.” And blah blah
blah. All this things may drive you crazy to want to be with the one you are in
love with, but when this wish finally comes true and you get the opportunity
you’ve been asking for and at the end of it all you may not really like all what
you see and experience with your so called lover.</div>
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I’m not about to blame you for wishing for an opportunity to
be with your love, all I want to tell you is how to keep a relationship without
working too hard. When you start staying with someone for the first few days,
you may not notice any problem with that person, but when the time starts extending
to one week, one month and more, the real person within you starts surfacing
and whether you are a man or a woman, there is nothing you can do about it. It happens
to everyone.</div>
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But what can you do when the situation becomes different
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Here are some ideas that will help you go through this
problem and not just go through but also win.</div>
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</span></span><b>Be a Good
Observer: </b>there are more than 101 things you may be doing that is causing
your partner to act in an unusual way towards you. If you are a good observer,
there are lots troubles you will save yourself from. All you need to do is take
notice of his dislike. Sometimes this dislike might not be expressed through
words or action, but a little change in facial expression might just be all you
need to know whether what you did was accepted or not. You don’t need a special
skill to be a good observer, all you need to do is cultivate an interest about
that thing you really want to make better, that way, and you won’t find it
difficult noticing anything wrong in the course of your relationship.</div>
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</span></span><b>Learn to
Listen More Than Your Speak:</b> Love is great to get a relationship started,
but love is not enough to keep the relationship going. To keep your
relationship healthy and strong, you need to learn to listen to your partner. Hear
your partner out, don’t be the only one with an opinion all the time. A successful
relationship is a joint effort from both parties and not just the idea of one
person. You need the other person to have a relationship work out fine.</div>
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</span></span><b>Dialogue
not Fight:</b> there is bound to be disagreement, that doesn’t matter, what matters
is what you do when you disagree. Instead of quarrel or pick a fight with your
partner, decide to talk. It is better to speak hurtful words rather than hit
each other. Words can easily be forgotten but fights are not as easy. So stay
clear fighting. Take out time to express your grieve to each other but do it in
a nice way that won’t provoke each other any further. As for the man, when you
notice that the matter is getting too hot for quiet talk, simply calm down and
say nothing. Women love to express themselves more with words. So let her talk
all she wants. Keep your own part till the next day when she is cool enough to
accept your opinion.</div>
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Love may start a relationship, get you in the mood of
staying together, but it is certainly not enough to keep you going, so it is
important that you have good qualities to keep your partner attracted to you at
all times. If you adhere to some of these tips on how to keep a relationship,
you would definitely have fewer problems to handle with your partner.<o:p></o:p></div>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-53485959457742181342012-05-30T16:00:00.003-07:002012-05-30T16:00:32.229-07:00How To Get Over Your Ex – Simple And Effective Ways To Stop Thinking About Her<br />
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Love is a beautiful thing and anyone who finds a partner to
share it with is blessed. But a situation where the love start waxing cold
rather strong and lead to break up, what do you do next? This is the reason I am
writing on this topic how to get over your ex.</div>
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This question has plagued the mind of young and even old
lovers to look for answers to that really solves this problem. But due to too
many conflicting advice on the internet, some are confused and still do not
know what to do.</div>
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In getting over your ex, there are things that you can
consciously do to help you forget faster than when you leave it to time. There is
a saying that goes “time heals all wounds.” Well, that may be true but only to
an extent, there are some wounds that never heal no matter how long you let it
linger in your heart without consciously doing something about. So if you have
been moving on the road of this saying, then its time you take a new turn
because in this article lies the answer that you need.</div>
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<b>How To Stop Thinking
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><b>1.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>Stay Away: </b> The first law to forgetting about anything is
to stay away from that thing. The same thing applies to your ex. If stay away
from him/her long enough, terminating all forms of contact or anything that
would remind you of her is the first sure antidote for this problem.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><b>2.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>Get rid of All Reminders:</b> in the course
of a relationship, there is bound to be gifts and all other fun things you both
share that bring good memories or bad memories. If you have any of the gifts he
or she bought for you in your possession, this is the time to get rid of it. If
you stop seeing the things that remind you of him or her, then you will be
making great progress in forgetting them.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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great thing that most people fail to realize after breaking up with someone
they loved. If you find yourself always thinking about the hurtful things you experienced
from your ex, you will find it a lot more difficult to forget. This is how it
works, when you have a good experience, in few days’ time, you are likely to
forget about that thing, but when you have a bad experience the feeling of such
experience tends to linger in your mind for a very long time. I might not have
all the psychological explanation to this but that is how it works. If you want
t forget about your ex, one of the things you need to do is to create a list of
all the good and nice stuff you both shared. Just like you forget good stuff,
in no time, those memories will start fading away and you will feel better
again.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><b>4.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>Write A Letter:</b> this technique has
worked for a lot of people even me. My first girlfriend was like a pain in my
ass. After we broke up, I had a terrible experience trying to forget her after
doing and trying out so many techniques, none of them seemed to work until I used
this technique. I wrote a letter addressing it to her. In that letter I poured
out all what I felt in no particular order, but I made sure nothing was left
out. After all my moody writing session, I took the paper shredded it and
flushed it down the drain. It was like addressing her face to face. That really
helped me get over her. You should try it too.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><b>5.<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-weight: normal;"> </span></b><!--[endif]--><b>Adopt a new Hobby:</b> if it takes you just
to abandon some of your former hobbies just ton forget him/her, then go ahead
and do it, it will be worth it at the end of the day. Take up new activities
that will help you get your mind on that particular thing you are doing at that
time. Such as jogging, running, take a singing class; go for martial training,
anything at all but at least not what you both did together.<b><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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I’m sure you feel better in no time if you do these things
rightly. These are some of the best techniques you can think of on how to get
over your ex. Exhaust all the options you have here a better result. I am sure
you will be glad you did. Have fun practicing<o:p></o:p></div>Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-64344744060613002822012-05-28T17:46:00.002-07:002012-05-28T17:46:51.450-07:00The easiest Tricks On How to Attract Girls That Only Few Guys Know<br />
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">The desire to have girls jump all around you is one that every guy
would want to have, but such occurrences don't often happen as much as we
expect them to, which is the reason why you must learn to attract girls if you
want them to stick around you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">The funny thing
about attracting women is that the techniques are quite simple and would work
for any woman when applied correctly. Even with these techniques intact, some guys’
sill finds it challenging to get girls to notice them. Before I tell you the
reason why some guys fail at attracting girls, i will first love to first talk
about the important points on how to attract girls.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">There are things
you must consider as a man if your intention is to get a girl to like you, this
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">1. Confidence:
This as far as I’m concerned is the first and most important ingredient to get
girls to notice you. Confidence is when you are sure about what you have, who
you are and what you can do. In order words, when you are confidence, fear will
be far away from you. Girls easily notice confident men when they set their
eyes on one, so you must learn to be self-assured at all times because it will
determine whether you will be able to take advantage of the opportunity you
have to talk to that girl.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">2. Communication:
This is the next step after confidence. Confidence is very important but it is
not enough if attracting a girl is your priority for now. you must learn to
communicate your intent to a girl in the most acceptable and caring way
possible if you want them to be attracted. The best way to express yourself to
a girl is not through sign language or body language, you need the
communication skill. Some people over a long period of time now have put the
importance of communication aside when it comes to making a girl develop
interest in you and that is why a lot of them have failed too many times
without number. If you will get that girl hooked to you, then talking rightly
will be one of the prerequisites. Girls always tend to estimate your
personality through the first few minutes of communication. so tell me why you
would not want to take this point seriously knowing fully well that your secret
attraction is in it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">3. Don't Be In a
Hurry And Don't Run After Girls: Girls do not like guys that look desperate. Do
you know why? It’s because they feel guys who are desperate are insecure and as
such, they always tend to move away from such guys. Girls like it when they
feel like they are in a competition, so it will do you a lot of good if you cut
down on how much of girls you chase and let them chase you. Girls usually want
guys that other girls want, for that reason; it is easier for a girl to get
attracted to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Though all this ingredients might be in place, it still might not
work if you leave this part of your life lacking:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you need to learn how to look clean. Wash yourself at least three times every
day to ensure that you are always clean and if you can’t. Brush your teeth
twice daily and floss after every meal and then use a good mouth wash to rinse
your mouth afterwards. Always ensure that your nails are kept short and neat. Trim
your hair if you like it short or style it properly if you like long hair. All this
should be done even more when you want to meet a girl because any slightly
difference from what they expect from a guy as per self-hygiene will put them
off and that will reduce your chances of ever getting that girl.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you wear: not many guys give attention to this part of their life and that is
why they have repeatedly failed in finding the answer to how to attract a woman
of their dreams. Learn to dress well. Women like it when a guy looks neat as it
is the first attracting point. What they see will determine whether they will
stand to at least to what you have to say. Like someone rightfully said “dress
the way you want to be addressed.” I couldn’t agree any better. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">If you do this things right, attracting a girl shouldn’t be a
problem that you cannot solve. I wish you the best in your adventure!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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love is a beautiful thing that brings even the most different people together and makes them want to live together even with their differences. But this differences sometimes get in the way of peace and cause many homes and marriages to crumble. So what do you do when you feel your differences are causing more trouble than they are solving?<br />
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if you want to actually build a home that is healthy and strong enough to take any challenge, then you must first understand that it takes more than one person to make marriage work and that there is no relationship in this world that is perfect.<br />
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if you want to have a healthy relationship, then you must also understand that it takes some sacrifices to make things work. the question now is "are you ready to make them?" the following paragraphs are tips to help you stay clear some challenges in a relationship<br />
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<strong>1. Keep Your Partner's Unique Personality</strong><br />
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Some people make this mistakes a lot of times in a relationship. The First rule to help your marriage stay healthy is to ensure that you do not try to change your partners personality. This is because every person on the surface of the earth is unique and deserves to be treated as such. this means that you should not expect your partner to be just like you, so don't get offended when he or she doesn't act the way you would loved him/her to act. when you have this at the back of your mind, you will hardly get angry at little things that he/she does that you don't like, because you already know that there is no way he could think exactly like you. So for your relationship to maintain that fire that got both of you together in the first place, you must learn to accept each others differences and live with it.<strong><br /></strong><br />
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<strong>2. Give Room For Growth</strong><br />
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What this means is simple, you need to allow your partner to leave up to their dreams. you need to know that your partner once had a life before you both came together to live as one, so you have to also understand that he/she has a dream that is important to them. So, endeavor to stay out of their way in order for this dream to be actualized or be a helping hand and a support that propels them even further into the achievement of their dreams. if you give this kind of space to your partner, you are simply telling him that the word "marriage" is not all that you are concerned about but him as a person. in as much as you are interested in helping your partner achieve his/her goal, never forget to chase yours too and make plans to have them realized.<strong><br /></strong><br />
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<strong>3. Always Communicate With Your Partner</strong><br />
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The importance of communication can never be overemphasized in a relationship. In order for your marriage to work the way it should, you must never forget to communicate as often as possible with your partner as it is one of the most important elements of a successful marriage. ensure that you always find time out of your busy schedule to talk with your partner. never say you are too tired or too busy to create talking sessions with your partner. Because if you don't create the time now when everything is working smooth and fine, you will certainly create the time later when the matter has gotten out of hand and it's about leading to a divorce. And that is one thing am sure you want to happen...right?<strong><br /></strong><br />
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<strong>4. Is your Spouse Your Friend?</strong><br />
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i know that it takes love to bring two people together, but it takes friendship to keep two people together. Your marriage will flourish even better when you start seeing your partner as your friend. because love is not enough to keep two lovers together for a very long time, there has to be something more to it and that is friendship. It is normal for friends to fight and when they do, they quickly find reasons to settle. <strong><br /></strong><br />
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<strong>5. Be Committed To Your Partner</strong><br />
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If you love the one that you are married to, then one of the ingredients you need to keep that love on the high level is to show commitment to your partner. If you want to have a healthy marriage, then this word should not be missing as part of the words you know. have at the back of your kind and consciously remind yourself of your commitment made to your spouse. that way, you will spend less time brooding over things that may cause discontent between two of you.<strong><br /></strong><br />
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Practice doing these things and you will have a marriage that is free from the difficulties associated with marriage that lots of people experience often. Have a lovely lifeChristopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7183678350263268840.post-11495017643675410222012-05-26T16:09:00.001-07:002012-05-26T16:09:31.993-07:00Welcome<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This is my first post on this blog and i want to use this opportunity to welcome you. this blog is my own little way of contributing from my wealth of knowledge specifically about things that has to do with relationships dating and love. so feel free to check for updates that will help you in this regard. Thank you.Christopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13078645622336266996noreply@blogger.com0